Ok! Don’t quite know what to title this post but I am pressed to ask? Is love really all that matters?
A lot of the time, I hear people say that the reason they want to marry someone is that they love him or her. Even people who write to me for help in one area of their relationship or the other sometimes amuse me when they claim they love their partners and won’t mind going ahead even if their problems aren’t all solved, because according to them, no one is perfect!
Well, I agree that no one is perfect. Not even me! And I can’t also claim that I know it all when it comes to relationships. But I strongly believe that all human beings are not wired to deal with all kinds of imperfection. For some, dealing with a particular kind of imperfection may be a walkover than dealing with another kind of imperfection. As a married woman, I have come to terms that at certain times, the issue of whether you love your partner does not come into play. So this post is aimed at helping us point out some things that are red alerts even if your love for your partner is 100 %.